Originally posted by deluded:

Does this answer your question?

True love is when two true people come together and give love to each other.

Actually no.  It doesnt give me the vision of True Love.

How very..... intelligent?  

One day a mad man escaped & was armed with a gun.  He caught a guy in the alley, pointed the gun under his chin and ask in a low deep tone, " 1 + 1 equals to how many?"

The hostage was frightened and he answered the question with caution, "Er..ermm...2..?"  With that and BANG!, he was dead.

The mad man then turned to walk away and he said calmly, "You know too much."

Imagine you are on a date with the woman whom you have pursue/flirt with for a period of time now.  Nice ambience dinning place and some alcohol to relax after that.  You know what you want from her, so you start flirting with her, teasin her..She reciprocates sponteanously too.

The next thing you know, both of you are at your apartment (assuming you live alone), kissing passionately, lips still locked while both of you proceed to your bedroom.  You lay her on your bed, still lips locking while your hands explore her body.  You start kissing her neck & proceed to unbutton her 1st two buttons.  You cant wait no more & you start crumsily undressin yourself, she smiles while you do that.  You impatiently fumble back to your bed & start to kiss her again. 

Just as you are to about to undress her, she stops you.  She tells you, "I dun think we should carry on", and she prepares herself to get out of your bed.

What are you goin to do?

Not all guys can be gentle towards their gal.  Some find it hard to put those into action while others think if being too gentle towards their gal, they will be labelled as hen-pecked..

But wat I really wanna say is...If a person truely loves another, he /she will put the other half in priority.

Originally posted by natas666:

Anyone tried Manhood Theraphy before?

I did this with this masseuse last week and it was pretty good.Nothing sexual.

Basically the masseuse works on your penis. Massage it for better blood circulation.

 

U sure u remain neutral (unerected) when massage is worked ard ur manhood??

Originally posted by rainee:

Okie, I think I have posted about my parents quite some time ago, but I am now encountering even more problems with them, so let's see if any of you can help me out with ways on how to deal with them.

My parents are currently residing in Malaysia (they have their own house there), they are both retired and received quite a reasonable amount of allowances from me every month. They have access to my car (which I am paying for as well, they only fork out money for the petrol) so they have no problem getting around. They are both in their late fifties and I am trying my best to make sure that they are enjoying their retirement period.

Recently I ROMed with my husband and my parents have been causing problem ever since. At first they pestered me on why can't I hold my wedding banquet together with my ROM ceremony and I told them that I do not have enough money to do so. Both me and my husband are not millionaires, we are just average people trying to earn a living to survive in this city which has a high cost of living as well. We told them we will hold the banquet in one or two years time and for a short while, they seemed to be ok with that idea. After that they changed their mind and wanted me to get a house instead. So I said I can use our savings to buy the house first but because of that, the banquet would have to be pushed until even later.

So obviously they are not happy about that because they said I am making them "lose face" in front of their relatives and they kept thinking that I am not going to hold the banquet anymore in the future. I really dunno how to explain it to them at times. Everytime I try to explain something to them they will doubt my words and said I don't care about their "face" anymore, don't care about their well-being anymore. If I really do not care, I won't even spend a single cent on their allowance every month (which is quite a hefty sum, it takes up around 40% of my total pay every month). When I try to explain things to them, they will keep threatening to come to my workplace to create a scene. I really can't afford to let them do that if I want to still work peacefully in my workplace for a long duration...

Another thing is that my hubby and I have plans of migrating to another country in maybe 6 or 7 years time...but that time they should be quite old already (and maybe one of them would have already passed away). I am the only child in the family and I do not want to shirk my responsibility of taking care of them but if I migrate, how do I go about it? Is it alright if I just hire a full time nurse or maid to take care of them in my absence?

I really want to be filial and responsible towards them but sometimes they do make things very difficult for me. Appreciate any comments or ideas on how I can solve this problem or at least stop them from keep bugging me...thanks for reading.

I have read ur point of view, Rainee & I feel ur stress.  And from here I hav absolutely have no idea why parents wld wanna stress their kids bcos of their "face".

Perhaps, may i suggest, tat u think hard & try to look from their point of view?  Why is there a need for them to push u up to the wall, why are they in such a hurry, what is really bothering them?

Do they have such opinion tat since both of u work in SG, u shld have earn much more money than the people tat they know?  If so, wat will be the way to show them that it's not always the truth?

I know when parents push too hard, their kids will only wanna stay away from them as far as possible cos it's such a chore.  But bcos u r being filial..u r torn in between.

I wish u the best, rainee & nekoRin.  Must jia you oh!  p(^o^)q

Nu ren xin, hai di zhen.  U duno meh?  Tat's wat make them interestin mah..

Nan ren dui nu ren, you ai you hen. 

Originally posted by aHGer^83:

many tend to run away when they review the scars tho....

Indeed...Me is guilty of tat too..so much so tat im a pro at tat! LOL

Anyway, back to my question..Wat is True Love anyway?

I ever heard tat when one is down on Calcium, one will always feel lergethic..

Women tend to lose alot more calcium than men..Perhaps u shld look into tat area?

Originally posted by aHGer^83:

time heals.. but there's bound to be a scar...

But it's not painful anymore.  Scar reminds us of the mistakes we hav encounter, it doesnt give us reason to run away from the same problem. 

If time can heal all wounds... ....

Wat is True Love??  How is true love being measured?  And if there's only one True Love...Wat abt the rest of ur relationships?  They are fake??

Originally posted by soleachip:

death isn't terrifying for me. it's the process of dying.

that's scary. the wait.

 

I agree, the process is the torture.  In SG, 人可以死，不能病。I dunwan my family members to be in debts in order to keep me alive..

I duno wat's there to be afraid of wat comes after death...

I do not fear death at the moment, cos im makin sure tat it wont happen until many decades later.  Wat I fear most now is the death of my love ones w/o havin to enjoy life the way they wish to have..

Originally posted by hopeless_:

well, i am about 168cm and about 65kg. about close to overweight.. yups.

Oh, wtf?!

Average weight for 168cm is < 65kg lor.... 

U too harsh on urself le ba?

U obviously are mixing ard with wrong bunch of pple.  Change ur grp of frenz who appreciate u bcos of ur virtues w/o magnifyin ur flaws.  The right grp of pple will encourage u & help u to build up ur confidence levels (by improvin wat u think tat makes u low confidence).

Of cos, u r the key person.  If u are not determined to improve urself, even the right grp of frens cannot help u much.

U shld trust me, cos i have been there, done that.  v

Originally posted by Jfund:

u r right about the trend in sg. but interestingly, some sources that i've read online actually proves that wedding planners help to save cost for the wedding! wedding planners are professionals who make sure the couple doesnt over-budget and also, they often will get discounts from caterers etc (whom they've always worked with) which they can later pass on to their customers.

Save cost for the wedding so tat the couple can pay the wedding planners mah..makes no difference to me.

QUERIDA by Vittorio Grigolo

Her name is Querida,
Her friend is la Luna,
Me trae fortuna y habla el idioma de mi corazòn
So lovely she is
La niña for me
La quiero de veras
Y cuando la veo
Son horas de amor
Tender is the night
So caliente I'll be waiting
As the moon is rising
She will dance away
Y bailando va,
Dulcemente,
Excitante,
She's a fire burning
She's an angel in my life
Angel alive
Her name is Querida,
Me enciende la vida
Y con sus caricias
Me envuelve la mente
De ardiente sabor
The moments we share
Mi niña mujer
La espero en la noche
Y dejo en sus labios
Mil besos de amor
Tender is the night
So caliente I'll be waiting
As the moon is rising
She will dance away way…
Y bailando va,
Dulcemente,
Excitante,
She's a fire burning
She's an angel in my life
Angel alive
Cuando estoy lejos de ella soy
Vela sin viento
Rain without a rainbow
Y bailando va,
Dulcemente,
Excitante,
She's a fire burning
She's an angel in my life,
Angel alive

Originally posted by Jrz:

yeh... its never ending. i cant wait for sims 3

Ahh~Im so tempted, so ~tempted...

Tat's y i m pondering if i shld carry on with the Sims2 expansions (which keeps coming new ones) or shld i wait for Sims3?

Originally posted by Go:

"I dont feel good to be with the hot/cute boy/gal that is interested in me if my gf/bf is good to me"

IT IS THE BETRAYAL OF YOURSELF that have your temptation curbed.

That's temptation. Some pple fall for it while others, like u, dun. 

Originally posted by Go:

I would like say "temptation" in this sense is something that I could never understand. You love him or her but yet you still want another him or her.

 

Try it in another way. 

E.g, "My gf/bf is good to me, but boy/gal A is so~~hot/cute and wat's important, he/she is interested in me too!"

Temptation comes with greed too.

I would say, temptations are everywhere; it's part & parcel of life, a "test" for individuals to either overcome or fallen for it.

Originally posted by henshin:

The problem is, what I study is also my passion. That is why it is so difficult to drop any one of them.

Since almost all of them are ur passion, it doesnt hurt to drop one or two -  for now.  After u hav settled the ones u hav in ur hands, then u can continue the ones tat u hav dropped.  Wat seems to be the problem here??

No self discipline.  Total sloth.

It's so good to be doin things that is ur passion, not many pple can afford that..

Since u r thinkin they are takin too much of ur time, either u drop some of them or u jolly well do something abt ur time management.

Oooo..wat a hero!  U save her life from a bicycle!  Wow~!